Parties!!!! Woohoo!!!! Or perhaps: Parties!!!! Boohoo!!!! Depends on the mood, depends on the party. Drinks parties in particular are disheartening. Why do people have them? What can a drinks party possibly add to the fun index of life? What is fun about standing around with no beginning or end to shape the proceedings, looking over people’s shoulders? No one yet has been able to explain the point.
But when duty calls, while spirits are sagging, there is a way to swerve the full-blown horror of the standing about trying to avoid repeated cases of ‘The Awkwards’. Welcome to the Seven-Minute Party Plan. Here is the essence of it: Keep moving at all times. Never stand still.
1. Arrive exactly one hour after the invitation says the party begins. It will be at its fullest and most chaotic which – for your evil purposes – is good news.
Beginning: “It’s SO nice to see you… I was just thinking about the time that…”
You are constantly in motion while talking.
3. You do one round of the room in this way and you are almost oppressively cheerful.
4. Leave. No goodbyes (particularly not to the host). Just dissolve into the night. Your presence will have been noted, your exit will not register.
Do not forget: Movement, smiling, circle the room, invisible evaporation. And a follow-up text saying how nice it was to see everyone. You will be in and out in no less than seven, no more than nine minutes. This way it hardly hurts at all.